So this week we learned about different theories.
now I don't have much because I was only in class one day so this is what I got :)
The systems theory is basically the thought that parts of the whole are more important, that everything is interconnected. Everything we do affects each other and everyone has a role in the family weather good or bad. For example sometimes the bad child draws attention to themselves so others get along. It can be a weird thing that keeps the family together. The Parents will not fight with each other because they must be on the same side to help their child.
The second theory talks about cost vs. benefits. its called the exchange theory. For example when children do their chores their parents give them positive attention. Or for the fellow college female, making a guy food in hopes he will ask you on  a date. The amount of gratification for each person may differ and you have to find that level in order to keep everyone happy and feeling appreciated.
Another theory is symbolic interaction. This may include tone of voice, eye rolls, or any other type of indirect emotional communication. The spoken word can also affect a relationship in drastic ways even if there is nothing said. Every action sends a message. This can be dangerous because we may not realize what we are doing and what type of message it may convey to the surrounding people. Meanings can be assigned to symbols through experiences with your family, friends, and how you've grown up.
The last would be conflict theory. In this instant, one may try to control their surroundings in order to eliminate problems that may arise. This isn't necessarily bad, but you must communicate in order for the conflict to be resolved. In this process, you might find that it brings you closer together to the person or people that you are in a disagreement with at the time.